Duoduo is a five-year-old child. He is usually well-behaved and cute. He is very liked by people. Duoduo's parents also attach great importance to their children's education and let them learn to speak civilization.，Be polite and develop a good character of being tolerant and generous, but an incident recently happened that made Duoduo's parents very unhappy.

The process of the matter is very simple. The kindergarten where Duoduo is located has many amusement equipment for children to play and use. Among them, the most popular item for children is the slide. Once my mother picked Duoduo up from school and saw that the child had been standing next to the slide watching and did not play with the children.，My mother looked closely and found that the people playing on the slide were all girls, and the boys were watching from the side, and they didn't have a chance to play.

The mother could see the state of desire in the child's eyes, so she asked a lot: "Why don't you play on the slide?" "Duoduo explained sullenly: “They said that ladies should come first, and boys should let girls go.”，Only when the girls have had enough fun can we go up and play, otherwise we will be laughed at. ”

Duoduo's mother feels that it is very unfair. Although the matter is very small, the impact on the children is very bad. Ladies first can let the girls go to the boys first, but they have to play together, or the boys help the girls to ensure her safety, rather than waiting for them to have enough fun before the boys are eligible to go.Play，

This is not to love girls, but to bully unilaterally.

Nowadays, the phenomenon of patriarchal preference for women and the phenomenon of female specialization occur from time to time. Neither of these phenomena is worth advocating, especially for spoiled children. Once the specialization of women is engaged in, it is not conducive to the growth of children. The meaning of equality between men and women lies in sharing resources and sharing hardships.

Parents should let their children look at their gender rationally, and don't specialize in girls.

Parents should let their children look at their gender rationally. The need for boys to take care of girls is premised on mutual respect, rather than boys blindly backing down and tolerating.

When parents educate girls, don't let their children use their gender advantages to bully others. For example, if your daughter and the boy are shoving each other because of a little skirmish while playing in kindergarten,，Parents don't think that if they are a girl in their family, they must be bullied by boys. It's just wrong for boys to beat girls.

The child is young and the beating of others is very bad, but it has nothing to do with the gender of men and women. Parents should figure out the ins and outs of the matter, rather than automatically putting girls in a vulnerable and bullied position.

Parents should not specialize in women when their children are very young，It is not easy for children to misinterpret the meaning of equality between men and women, and it is not conducive to the growth and development of children.

What should parents pay attention to in educating girls?

First, girls' minds are relatively delicate

Girls' minds are more delicate than those of boys. Parents should pay attention to their children's psychological changes when educating girls. Some girls cry when they say it is not because of her weak anti-frustration ability, but because they think too much and will misunderstand their parents' views on her. Is the girl's mind heavier?，This requires parents to pay attention to their daily words, deeds, behaviors and attitudes, and not to inadvertently hurt their children.

Second, girls are not weak

Parents should tell their children that girls are not synonymous with the weak. Although girls' strength is relatively small compared to boys, strength and weakness are not distinguished by strength.

Girls also have their own things that they are good at. Some parents feel that girls should not play with cars and should not jump up and down dishonestly. In fact, for children, parents should respect their children's development.，Conform to the child's preferences and don't define the child casually. Girls may be weak but they are by no means weak.

Third, girls are more afraid of pain

According to science, girls' pain nerves are more sensitive than boys, about twice as sensitive as boys, so it is normal for some girls to be afraid of pain. Parents should protect their children's safety and avoid their children from being harmed by the outside world.

Fourth, physical education predates boys

Under normal circumstances, girls will develop first than boys, and the gender characteristics are more obvious than boys. Parents should give their daughters a good physical education in time and don't feel embarrassed.，Let the child understand that these are all natural growth phenomena, and solve the child's doubts. Only if the child understands enough physiological knowledge can he or she better protect himself or herself.

Fifth, treat men and women equally, and never prioritize men and women.

Parents should treat their children equally and do not prioritize men and women. As the country attaches more and more importance to education, the personal value and social value of girls are not lower than that of boys. patriarchal preference for women is harmful to both children. Pay attention to the child's inner world, the palms of your hands and the backs of your hands are flesh.，It is important to have a bowl of water flat.

Sixth, understand the true meaning of girls' need to be “enriched”

Everyone says that girls should be enriched, so what is the true meaning of enrichment? First of all, parents should not spoil their children and rely on material resources to satisfy them. Secondly, eutrophication refers to spiritual eutrophication.，Bringing more daughters to see the world is not limited to the development of daughters. The best education for children is enrichment.